Category Archives: Feminism

Updated but not Uptown

I had a wonderful Mother’s Day. The girls and Sweet Babou went out of their way to make it a day of raw awesome and I am thankful for all of it. Just having them in my lives is reward … Continue reading

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Fighting Back

First, let us be absolutely clear that the onus of stopping rapes is firmly on the person attempting to rape; victims are not made complicit in their own rapes by not being kung-fu experts, armed, or sober. That doesn’t mean … Continue reading

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Oh noes! Fat people might exist!

In what could be best described as a dick move, a company specializing in oatmeal (of course this place was in New York, NY) put one of those little chalkboard ads out on the sidewalk pointing out that bagels have … Continue reading

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Priss Pot and the Mail Order Bride

Sorcha is still dealing with Priss Pot’s shenanigans, but she just sends them along to her lawyer who calls Priss pot’s lawyer, who in turn calls Priss Pot to explain why his threats to “take away” their child is bullshit. … Continue reading

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Trying to find a happy place

I am not going to blog about Boston today, except to say that people in the media calling this the “first act of terror in America since 9/11” are full of shit. There have been PLENTY of domestic terrorist acts … Continue reading

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And Justice for All

Yet another teen girl has been a victim of “slut shaming” and has committed suicide, under circumstances you would not fucking believe could be real if it were in a televised drama. Seriously, you would think the writers of the … Continue reading

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Reading the Body

Anthropology of the body is a branch that specializes in the cultural meanings and narratives “written” on the human form. This academic branch points out many of the sociocultural interpretations that people unconsciously see in the human form. For example, … Continue reading

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The Iron Lady had an unforgivable vagina

Margaret Thatcher died today. It is very sad for her family, of course, but her policies seem to be skewing everyone else’s reactions to the furthest ends of the political spectrum. Now, I personally loathed her politics. Loathed, I say. … Continue reading

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If you can’t beat ‘em, pretend to join ‘em

Have y’all noticed that there is a concentrated effort by the patriarchy (as represented by the far right) to brand feminists as man-hating bitches who eat sliced fetus on toast and worship vaginas? Me too! There are two reasons they … Continue reading

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Why I am not on the radio today

Yesterday, I received this nifty (and frankly flattering) request: Dear Betty, My name is [redacted] and I’m a producer with the [radio station in NYC that is also syndicated]. I’m writing because we would love to interview you tomorrow morning … Continue reading

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